We all dream big

For as long as I can remember, I dreamed big. I wanted it all. A good, well-payed job, a happy family, a big house, many good friends, a fancy car, etc. My father always said I was not on solid ground, that I was not realistic (like he considered himself to be). I always replied he was a pessimist and I and optimist.

I like to dream, because I realize, that I can be what I allow myself to dream, and no more. I experienced it on my skin. What I really wanted, I could visualize, that I could and did achieve. The secret teachings helped me to get there and is continuing to help me on my way.

So you know the anecdote about the frog? Frogs competed in climbing on a tree. The other frogs were shouting at the competitors, that frogs weren't meant to climb and that they will never achieve. And slowly everyone, but one, gave in and could not climb to the top. But one did achieve it's goal. They discovered that that frog was deaf.
You get it? Regarding your dreams you should never listen to others telling you you cannot do it (even if they are your parents).
I felt like that frog, and have achieved many things, that I wanted. But lately I started to look around. First there was my mother who told me, that she and my father dreamed of their own house and even having a helicopter (hah aha). And then there are many other people, that had their plans, but instead of living their dreams, are now living mediocre.

Of course, what's wrong with mediocrity? Nothing, if it didn't cause a disappointment.
It's nice to have a well-paid job, but you want a bigger salary. It's nice to be in the middle, but you wanted to stand out, to be a star.

So, why didn't they make it? And will I make it? Will I have the mindset required?
I wonder. doing fine so far, but you never know, I'll keep you posted.