Sex and the city II

Last night me and my best women-friends went to Thai restaurant and had a cosy evening by the candle light. Talking of relationships, of course :) just so you guys know about what we women usually talk about. After all it still is mystery what happens when we come together. We like to talk about our intuition, our feelings, our men (and make rain, as we say:). But don't worry men- little secrets that we share are safely kept in our hearts and we still don't just tell everything to our best friends - right, women? Back me up here! ;)
Well to return to our subject- we are four women, struggling with our own problems and sharing them to make it a little easier to go through our everyday lives.
One couldn't make it to our last meeting - she could best be described as Charlotte according to IMDb plot summary of the real Sex and the city - a red-head, determined to score professionally and to be though in love too. Passionate, strong, always ready for a party, yet fragile, caring and a wonderful cook. Yeah, a lot of resemblance, here :) but if you look at other 3 of us- not so much. Yeah, we all like shopping (one much more, than the other 3- right? :) we are modern women, facing the world that has changed women and men roles - which leaves us confused about whether to approach men, or just wait (we talk a lot about that subject), to leave men's jobs to men or to just take care of everything ourselves... Tough, I know! I just hope that when I read this blog after 20 years, things will change in that area.
At first sight one of us is Carrie, and one of us is Samantha, but characteristically there's no resemblance- we are far too traditional, unfortunately. We are one guy at the time kind of women. Yes, men- there still is hope! :)
After AGAIN allowing my friends to have their fun talk about how they cannot wait for me to get married so that they could be my bride's maids (in PINK dresses - yes, that's the purpose of the picture above :)
We had sooo much fun and at the end of a nice long evening chat we all agreed, that it would be just wonderful and by far the most simple if the first guy we dated would be the one. Because it is far to much tiring and it leaves us with loads of emotional burden along with so much disappointment it is hard to enter fresh into a new relationship. And when you finally find the one you could really see yourself spending your life with - you are to tired to enjoy it fully. I think women from real Sex and the city would agree also!

There's a joke about that actually :))))) ----> A women comes to a building where it says "Find your husband". She goes into an elevator and arrives to the first floor. There she sees lots of good looking guys, but she wants more from a man and she goes to the second floor. There she finds man, that are good looking, are athletic, clean after them selves and cook. By now she knows, that every next floor is better and she still wants something more - and bingo- comes to the 3rd floor where there are handsome guys, sensitive, athletic, clean after them selves, cook and are ready to comitt. She likes what she sees, but than becomes curious, about what is in the 4th floor. She hardly inticipates what is waiting for her! And finally the top floor! The door open.... but there are no men on this floor! Only disappointed women - on the wall she reads: Here is the proof that women are never satisfied! :)
Well now I'm just spitting in our women bowl (it's a Slovenian saying), but there is a little truth in it, but it's also true for men! ;)
BeeeeeHave! ;))))))

Daydreaming

Daydreaming... thinking about what would be, but is not (yet) a reality... planning things that are not (yet) on the horizon... a way out of the everyday life...
Many times I drift away in need of a change, of leaving the stress behind. That's when I go to the internet and check out the daily gossip (sometimes the hourly gossip :). It helps me to sneak into the lives of others, their's ups and downs. Maybe that's the answer to the popularity of reality shows. Relationships are complicated, people are becoming more and more aware of the endless numerous of the possibilities and they are not satisfied with small things. We want more and that's way it's so hard to maintain a relationship or have a safe, predictable life.
We have become a society of voyeurs, observers. We are interested in lives of others. It is easier to see others make mistakes. It's easier to live through lives of others. We postpone tasks, we need a break from life.
But until we start really living and start focusing our energy into things we want to achieve- we are only daydreaming, when in reality we could already be at the point of living our dreams. :)

We all feel lonely sometimes...

Everyone knows that people in our society are drifting more and more apart, we are big individualists and have the feeling we cannot find a soulmate. Our lives seem to be pointless, empty. Even with many people around us, we sometimes feel alone. Why is that? I think it's the lack of the feeling of being connected. Connected to the world around us.
For us Christians the factor is also another dimension - maybe because for a glimpse of a second we realise how happy we were before we were born to this Earth- being one with our Father who is in heaven, feeling whole and connected with everyone and everything. Our soul is one with everything and God is all around us- we seem to forgett.
Especially the people that do not believe in anything beyond this life- might feel more lonely, and intimidated by the fact that they as everyone around them- are getting old and will die someday. It's hard to live, if you think you will not get reworded for your dids. But for us Christians it means - accomplishing our tasks here on Earth and returning to our Father and Mother and their endless love.
Eventhough if you don't believe in God- you should know, that all well comes around, as do all the bad things. But it is more important to feel connected. I think we can make it easier for ourselves if we live in a society that is very much connected- here is a privilage for people that live in suberbs, or villiages - or have a group of people that we feel we belong to. I try to be an active part of my society- I live in a suberb, go to church, organise and lead the activities for youth and children...
Eventhough- I sometimes feel lonely. I am in a happy relationship- eventhough- I sometimes feel lonely. If you are in a relationship just because you don't want to feel so alone all the time- you should start realising, that noone can make you happy if you don't start making yourself happy- starting with the small things. People that are lonely while single, will probably feel lonely in a relationship too, unless they do something about it. I have been there, and I was hanging on my partner, until I made the decesion to make myself happy- by doing small things that made me happy and set small goals. Now my life is much more full, my heart is rejoicing- and when I have moments of wickness- I try to do something good for myself- go running, go out to the sun, cook something healthy, go dancing, dress up nicely and go for a walk in the forrest... whatever makes your day- I trust you will have a great day today with a little spark of happiness from your devine soul!
And remember we are all the same and you are never alone! Reach out for someone that needs help and it will make you feel less alone- I guarantee! ;)

Unhappy about your wishes not coming true? Angels come to help.

Zapri Tvoja ocena je bila uspešno dodana.

Zapri Med ocenjevanjem je prišlo do napake.

I believe in angels since...forever - all my life. I had a warm experience with angels twice in my life- ok, now it's three times allready. First time was wen I was a little girl- I jumped down from high stairs and something (an angel's hand) cought me and gently put me down on the last stair so I did't get hurt. My late grandmother saw that, but was in shock after the event. The second time was during my depression- I have had problems with depression and negative thoughts from elementary school on and in my darkest moment while crying an angel leaned over me like a warm shadow and it gave me peace and comfort. It was amazing! Well I never really doubted in angel's existance, but to tell you the truth- I would't be too happy to acctually see him- it would frighten me!

The third experience was different. I was unhappy in love since my last serious relationship ended in 2005. I was praying a lot for my husband to enter my life and try to grow spiritually as much as I could in between. But nothing helped. I was ringing the wish bell in St. Maria's church and on top of a hill, for my wish to finally come true- since I have been praying for my husband since I was 11 years old. It was spring 2007, when I went to Egypt- and even made a wish there - by the wishing well near Sphinx- to have my future husband in my life by spring 2008.Then in winter 2007 I went to a seminar about angels and also felt a strong presance of angels when we manifested our individual wishes. You can only guess what mine was :) of course: I manifested I am in a serious relationship with my future husband by God's will by march 2008! (which was only 2 months and a half away!!!). But I strongly believed that I am ready and that the time is right. One woman told us her experience when her wish came true, but wasn't really ready- she said- BE PREPERED FOR YOUR WISHES TO COME TRUE! And I thought I was, but I acctually wasn't. Mine came true one week after that! And we started to date, but I refused him as I couldn't see him as right- I actually ended the relationship 3 times, not willing to accept him- but all the time there were signs he is the right one - he was even talking about marriage with me. Until march came. I was still blind, but one day he said in a calm voice- "It's march already," and looked at me meaningfully. It was a sign- That's when I knew.

It's true what they say- it's hard to live if your wishes don't come true, but somethimes it's even harder when they do! You must grow faster and be prepared - now it's for real and you have to give it all you've got- so be prepared for when your wishes come true! :)
And THANK YOU ANGELS THOUSAND TIMES!

P.s: The picture above is said to be of a real angel in the sky and you can read more about it at: http://www.angelsghosts.com/real_angel_in_sky_picture.html

Looking for a dream job and a dream partner

People have something inside ourselves- a strive for the universal truth.
We ask ourselves - is there a God, are we the only living things in universe, what is important in life, what is the recipe for a successful living, etc.
What we all have in common- we all search for a dream job and a dream partner.
Unfortunatelly as much as we would like- there is no universal recipe or truth or the only right way to achieve our goals. Different people have their own truth, their own way.
Mostly why we search for the universal truth is because we want someone else to decide instead of us - how we should live and what we should do with our lives.
But our life should not be about what other people want us to become. It is important to search inside ourselves for the answers.

Ok, now we come to this- we do come with instructions :) - but they only reveal themselves when we love and are in touch with the only person we will garanted spend our whole life with- OURSELVES!
Feel what you are about, because if your life doesn't matter to yourself, how could it matter to anyone else? (with the exception of our parents, which should love us no matter what we decide to do with our lives) It's a harsh truth, but... life can only give you what you expect from it- nothing more.
So find and love yourself and it will go on easy from there. I know it is hard to love yourselves if you didn't get enough love from your parents. And even if you did- if your parents didn't love themselves- it is very hard for you to know your own value and have high level of self confidence. Cure yourself with the love you have inside and/or with the love of God - which is endless. Love will start making things happen and change around you.

And when you have it enough for yourself- give it to as much others as you can. Your life will have a new meaning. Believe me after you've learned to love yourself- you will attract loving people in your personal and business life! Happiness start here!It actually isn't so much about who you are with- but who you are. This recipe of mine really works- just try it!
Become everything you search in your partner!

(or stop being so demanding about what you want- 'cause no one is perfect)

Have a lovely day and may your positive view of the world attract good people in your life!
God bless!

Destiny wants me (and you :) to do something important

Everything starts with energy. And my energy has been focused on human relations, human nature, family dinamics and the way our brains are working- since primary school and I haven't lost that focus yet- and for all of you, who are reading this now- I'm sticking with this! :)
I feel we all have a special mission in our lives - and I feel mine is just that- Sharing the knowledge I have with others- and that means with you too ;)

So many books I have read in my life, so much formal and informal education I have gotten in my life, so much information is stored inside my brain - I feel I can make it easier for you , so you don't have to go through all of that yourself. ;) I'm joking - Knowledge is priceless- actually IT'S THE MOST PRICED POSSESION OF A PERSON! But maybe I can tell you something you are dying to know, but haven't found that information anywhere, or maybe make you more enthusiastic and eager to know more about how we - humans and our brain acctually work and why we behave in certain patterns.
Funny, a? We (and especially our loved ones) should come with instructions- but we don't, soooo.... stay in touch.