Women’s destinies

I watch all this women around me: some of them married to a man, because they settled soon in their life- they are happy, because they feel they are in the best place they could be. Some of them being together with theirs because they are afraid they cannot find better out there. Some passionately in love, but those relationships surprisingly have a big tendency of ending very soon. While others being in a relationships with man they desire, but the man is flirting around and has a big problem with true commitment.

OK, we all have been in a relationship that had steamy passion, and how surprised were you, they almost never last?

Yeah, it could be a year, or even five or seven… but then- over just like that. Usually the case is that you are just too different, because passion is usually very strong between people that are opposites, and too much of that is not good in the long run. Yeah, it is good, that your partner has some qualities that balance you, but big differences in your lifestyle, values, could present an unsolvable problem.

The guy we really want to be with for the rest of our lives is first of all:

1. Someone we can count on,
2. Someone that understands and supports us,
3. Someone we find true haven with.

And all this qualities can be found in a man that is similar to us- we say we found our soul mate- he is the one who listens to us, who understands us without words, who can even understand us better when we don’t understand what is happening to us. And that is a solid rock to build on- our relationships, our families and the passion. Yes, the passion is something not only physical for a woman, it builds up especially when a woman is treated like a Queen, so that she can feel good and relaxed as a woman. From that comes self-confidence, happiness, the energy to fulfill our dreams and takes us to the place we would like to be. All that can be only achieved if a women’s one desire is complete: to be loved as she is, to feel she is in a safe place. In that our basic need is different from man’s need for excitement, freedom, self-control. But if a woman is fulfilled she does not have the need to constrain her man (too much :), and they can both achieve their separate as well as common goals in life.

Do you feel that? Do you feel fulfilled? Follow your heart, not just momentary happiness and passion (ok, maybe you have to learn on your own skin in what you should invest in ;). But most importantly – learn about yourself: who you are, what are your values, your life wishes and with what kind of partner you can still live your dream and come to self-realization. Have a good journey!